How Pregnant Moms Should Prepare for a Baby Shower

You’re nearing the end of your pregnancy which means one thing: someone’s going to throw you a baby shower. Well-meaning friends and family have been looking forward to this day since you shared the news of your new family addition. There are going to be a lot of people who will be vying for your attention and wanting to spend time with you. Here are some tips for how a pregnant mom should prepare for the baby shower.

First of all, plan ahead for the big party day. Tell your husband/partner the time and date ahead of time. Have him drive you to the event and pick you up afterwards. There will be a lot of gifts to bring home, so have him drive the mini-van or SUV or borrow an appropriate car from family or friends.

Buy yourself a new outfit. So often when you’re pregnant, you don’t feel like getting dressed up in a new dress or skirt. Splurge on something fun and comfortable to treat yourself as being the guest of honor. Take time with your hair and makeup and enjoy being the pampered star of the day.

Don’t be the first person at the party. Ask your hostess when the best time is for you to arrive. She may have surprises planned for your entrance…or not. Have her tell you the best time. Once you get there, mingle around early while you’re fresh and your feet and back won’t hurt as much. Thank everyone for coming and then find a comfy spot in the middle of the festivities to watch the party unfold.

Have a great time. Baby showers aren’t dull events with a too-dry cake and sweet punch. They’re so much more. There are themes for most of them, with food and games to match. Get into the spirit of the event. Check out the decorations and choices of appetizers, finger foods, and desserts. Compliment the hostess on her creativity and enjoy laughing and playing along with the games.

Be easy-going. The hostess has put a lot into the party, inviting your friends, and family, and planning the activities. Smile and have fun, but don’t be afraid to step away for a breather or bathroom break for time to yourself. Pregnancy can tire you out easily, so pace yourself and you’ll have a great time.

Make sure you get the names and addresses of everyone who attends the party so you can send them thank you notes. You might also consider bringing a hostess gift to whoever is throwing the party to show your appreciation.

Take lots of pictures. These are memories both you and your baby will forever cherish. Document the event with snapshots of friends, family, the decorations, the cake, the food, everything.

Above all, have a great time celebrating the joy of life and your new addition.





Criss White is a professional writer that enjoys boy baby shower parties and also writes about other baby shower ideas. Criss enjoys hosting parties for friends and family when not writing.

5 Physical Activities Pregnant Women Should Avoid

Pregnant women are the vessel for all things that may carry to their unborn child. It’s very important that any mom-to-be take extra care of herself, physically, emotionally, and health-wise. While you’re watching what you eat and the vitamins you take, a pregnant woman also needs to not participate in particular events that may affect the baby.

Here are 5 physical activities pregnant women should avoid.

Thrill seeking – it may seem obvious, but during your pregnancy, you should stay away from any physical activities that raise your heart rate, increases your blood pressure, or puts you in physical danger. It’s best to avoid things like roller coasters, mountain climbing, SCUBA diving, snowboarding, skiing, etc. There’s nothing wrong with moderate exercise, but stay away from the more dare-devil thrills.

Cleaning cat box – while we love our furry friends that live with us, they do carry fleas, ticks, dander, and other possible allergens that could adversely affect your unborn child. During your pregnancy, have your significant other change the cat litter or the flea collar.

Hot tub/sauna – resist the urge to participate in any physical activity that may relax you too much. Hot tubs and saunas can raise the body’s temperature exponentially. Best to avoid this type of activity while pregnant. Also, Reflexology is thought to be something to stay away from, as well, as touch and pulse points on the body could trigger early labor.

Household cleaning – pregnant women don’t have to avoid cleaning altogether, but should evade cleaning products that may contain warning labels with words like “poison” or “dangerous” or “harmful.” Good old ingredients like white vinegar and baking soda can handle most home cleaning challenges. Or, have your partner take over the household chores during your pregnancy.

Excessing sun exposure – it’s best if you stay out of direct sunlight and avoid sunburn. Also, you should stay away from tanning beds and tanning booths that direct UV rays at your body. You don’t have to forgo that summer beach trip, but avoid overheating by staying under an umbrella or cabana. The better you feel, the better your baby will feel.

And the best advice during your pregnancy is to talk to your doctor, be open and honest, and let him/her know your exercise regime, diet, and any other life changes that could affect your baby. Always get your doctor’s advice first and foremost.




Criss White is a professional writer that writes about pregnancy and other party planning topics like food for baby shower parties and other baby shower ideas. Criss enjoys hosting parties and cooking when not writing.