There are the people who seem to be ‘lucky’ in love. They are always in a relationship or get to be surrounded by people who admire them. Is it just luck or something else?
While some may have the natural charisma, at times, these people do exert effort – and by effort it means time and finding ways to find love. On the other hand, there are people who can’t seem to find love in their life. We’ve all heard their reasons, and you probably know a person or two who are friends of yours. There are a number of reasons why some remain single, and here are the top ones.
1. Sticking to a regular routine. If you have the same routine of work, home, and maybe go out with the same group of people, why not break the routine and try something else? Make your world a little bit bigger so you get to meet new people. Love may truly be out there and limiting your social interaction will limit that chance as well. People must go and step out of their comfort zone to be able to find a new and exciting love.
2. Family matters and responsibilities. While all of us of course want to meet the demands and responsibilities at home, we should not forget to give time to ourselves and to give time to ourselves means we would be able to find time and activities that will lead us to the person meant for us.
3. Religious beliefs may at times defer people from finding love. Sometimes, a person falls for someone on a different faith and if there are hindrances, they do not push through with the relationship and totally defers from meeting other people. Closing the doors and religious walls sometimes prevents a person from going out and finding love. The same can be said of people with very strong political convictions or people who are in tightly knit social groups.
4. Focusing too much on work means having no time to nourish a relationship. Whether finding a new person or keeping a current relationship, time demands at work doesn’t truly help one to get ‘quality time’ to grow a relationship. The time that should be spent socializing or being with the partner already goes to work. The mental and physical drain of work leaves the person with little energy, and at worst, be grouchy and overly-serious – not a good combination in finding and growing love.
5. Being in a small community means having limited people to meet. It is important that for one to find love, the people in his or her area are on his or her age bracket. Also, there should be enough single or available people to mingle. The fewer singles in an area limits the chance of meeting the right person.
You can wear your heart on your sleeve and maybe soon enough, you can find love and find yourself planning a wedding and even buying wedding decorations and love favors.
But remember that love and relationships do take effort and persistence. But on top of it all, being open to possibilities will truly help you find love even in the most unusual place. Look at your Hollywood movies – they never seem to fail in reminding us that love comes in different packages and at different times – all you have to do is open your senses and once you find it,
never shy from it and accept the possibilities – and the risks – with open arms.
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